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I am outgoing, sophisticated, very articulate, funny, decisive. I like urban living and am not into country life or very big on men who are addicted to sports. I can dress down, but don't do jeans. I'm fairly well traveled and have lived many places in the U.S., but I very much like Oklahoma, where, unfortunately, Catholics are a true minority.
I don't need plans for my life or anyone's agenda. I'm allergic to complaining and have about zero tolerance for anger, drama, judgment, and emotional baggage.
I have a PhD education, but never finished my degree. I raised my son instead. I teach writing as an adjunct instructor and have several literary projects going at one time, and am a serious published poet. I enjoy music, performing arts, cultural events--e.g., I am a Philbrook museum member.
I have all kinds of friends, by the way, and found that most of my non-Catholic friends were the ones who stood by me through divorce. Hmmm. A commentary here.
I stay fit and work out 5-7 days a week.
I am an English Mass Catholic, devout and observant, but am NOT a match for Latin Mass or Charismatic Catholics. I set aside time for daily prayer, and go to daily Mass as often as I can. I'm not into Marian apparitions or much conventional piety, but I do like theology and spirituality.
I am looking for a professional fit man between 54 - 63 with a graduate level education. Adult children are fine, but not living at home. Friendship and chemistry are required. Kindness and charity a must.
|Location||Tulsa, OK, USA|
|Height||5' 8" (172 cm)|
|Build||I'll tell you later|
|Relationship Status||Divorced with annulment|
|About Children||I have children and do NOT want more|
|Religious Importance||It is very important|
|Religious Activity||Mass when I'm available|
|Field of Work||teacher|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White|
|Music||Classic Rock, Folk, Opera, Rock n Roll|
|Favorite bands and musicians||Tom Petty, Rich Mullins, R.E.M, Gillian Welch|
|Movie||Action/Adventure, Documentary, Drama, Foreign Films, Suspense/Thriller|
|Favorite movies and actors||Buck, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, A Fish Called Wanda, When Harry Met Sally|
|Favorite TV shows||House of Cards, Madmen, Hell on Wheels, Sherlock|
|Indoor activity||Cooking/Culinary arts, Movies/TV, Music, Opera/Theater, Politics, Weightlifting|
|My idea of a great trip||Lots of options here|
|Food||American, Barbeque, Chinese, European, Indian, Italian, Spanish, Thai|
|Favorite restaurants||Juniper, Stonehorse, Kilkenny's, lots to choose from|
|Schools attended||UGA, Athens, Ga; U of Dallas; U of Toronto|
|Timeliness||I am usually on time|
|As for fashion||I don't need advice!|
|Age||Between 54 and 65 years old|
|Distance||Within 50 miles of Tulsa, OK, USA|
|Height||Between 5' 7" (170 cm) and 6' 8" (203 cm)|
|Education||Professional degree, Bachelor's degree, Graduate Student, Master's degree, Doctoral degree|
|Relationship Status||Single - never been married, Divorced with annulment, Widowed|
|Religious Importance||It is very important, It is somewhat important, It is starting to be important|
|Religious Activity||Mass every Sunday|
|Ethnicity||Caucasian / White, Hispanic / Latino, Native American|
|Smoking||Never, On occasion|
|Drinking||Never, Rarely, On occasion, Frequently|
Well, let's call it a "get acquainted" event and not a date. No dinner and a movie.
Conversation over coffee or a glass of wine would be fine. Then let's see.
Always tell the truth and avoid lies and fictions. Always make up before bedtime. Be devoted to each other and keep talking. Enjoy life as a couple. Don't over-plan life; it's just too unpredictable.
I believe it all. Prayer is for everyone. I make weekly adoration a part of my life. I think pretty clearly about things in general, including my faith, but I am not, overall, a conventional person.
Catholicism is not a middle-class enterprise. I don't like semi-pelagianism (too much of it around) because it puts achievements and morality (Don't get me wrong--the commandments are essential) above response and contemplation. If you don't get what I'm saying, just think about the structure of lectio divina.
Research and write a biography (have begun!). Get a volume of poetry published. Create a blog on faith and spirituality.
The story of the pearl of great price. We ARE the pearl of great price and the Father sent his Son into the world to seek and purchase us at all costs.
I am a political independent who tends toward the conservative, but I don't adopt any positions without thinking things through. I'm very non-judgmental and always try to accept people's limitations and weaknesses, including my own.